Why do you think a 15 year old girl would do this?

I am 16 and go to the same school with this 15 year old girl, she is in the same year as me.

She strokes my hair, stares at me in lesson at dinner and break, she also shouts my name in a higher than normal pitched voice it sounds more calmer and softer too. We are friends but don’t hang out or have each others number. She added me on facebook november last year when she started to show signs, she comments and likes almost all of my status’s and she has made wall posts such as "I love you" and "I HAD A DREAM ABOUT YOU!!!".

On day during the school holidays we crossed paths and she demanded a picture with me on her phone off my friend, when she went to pose she got on her tip toes as she is about 3-4 inch smaller than me and pushed her chest into mine this also made her boobs squash up against me. She uploaded that picture as "[My Name] xoxoxoxox!!!".

When we got back to school I got asked off her best friends if I liked her and I started noticing her looking and staring more often. We only have 1 lesson together which is P.E and in one P.E lesson she touched my a$$ and asked for another photo, then during another P.E lesson a week later when the lesson had finished and we went to get changed her best friend knocked on the boys changing room and asked for me and told me to follow, the door to where she was getting changed was open and a second after saying I was here she came out with her shirt unbuttoned I could see everything and what a body she has! (She was wearing a bra and stuff) and then she uploaded them pictures to facebook then her boyfriend (who looks about 20) commented saying that "We would make a cute couple!" and she replied with "I know! I will love you always and forever and this will always last!".

The day after we had another P.E nothing happened apart from some eye contact, until the end when we were all about to leave, she stroked my hair and said "Aww I love your hair!" in her high pitched calm voice, but then her friend said sarcasticly "Your no allowed to talk to him remember because [Her boyfriends name] doesn’t like you being with him".

She obviously likes me! but why do all them things? and why did her boyfriend stop her from talking to me?


She really likes you and is somewhat obsessed with you she want you to be a big part of her life and wants you to know that in a subtle way. Although she does all that to get your attention. if you like her make her life more easy because it takes courage to show your body to a guy that your not with but then again she’s trying way to hard to get you and that could end badly. As for her boyfriend if it is her real boyfriend, no boyfriend want his girlfriend flirting with other guys or seeing their bodies… Would you like some random guy to see your girlfriends body? Normal answer would be no. You either need to find a way to make her uninterested or let her down easy. if you let her go hard then she will be ruined, and she may say bad things about you. If you like her flirt back make her happy and tell her to calm down.

there all lots of girls that fall to hard for a guy and also don’t know how to control themselves they feel as though they are in love and they want the person they love to love them back. typical teenage girl hormones. but just be careful with her because if you show your uninterested she will be heart broken. even though your not in a relationship she thinks you guys have something.

you need to also find a way to make her understand that posting pictures of herself on facebook everyone see’s them and she shouldnt create that kind of image for herself. take pictures with her where she looks decent her height hugging or w.e but not making her chest look bigger. she should be happy with her body the way it is.

Basically all in all just be a good friend, give her advice dont piss her boyfriend off respect that he is with her and talk to her about it. if you like her tell her to break up with her bf so them there is nothing holding you two apart she will feel extremely happy about this usually. Try to avoid seeing her body or letting her expose herself. make her have more respect for her body. somehow. its hard but she will be thankful.

i hope this helps

-Another teenage girl

17 comments

  1. oddly says:

    She wants you d*ck
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  2. the guy says:

    she is overly obsessed with u and if u like her u can defiantly be with her if u want otherwise tell her nicely you dont like her and we can still be friends ( she wont act so weird after)
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  3. Irish Doll says:

    she want you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  4. Pums says:

    Her boyfriend’s probably jealous of you. :P
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  5. B R says:

    She does like you. She does those things to SHOW you she likes you. Her boyfriend stopped her from talking to you because he’s jealous and worried you’ll steal her away from him. Don’t worry, I have a feeling it will happen.
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  6. Brieana says:

    She prob wants you to ask her out
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  7. Kelly says:

    Ahh she wants you really bad … If you like her talk to her alot but tell her if you guys are gunna be together she has to break up with her bf lol
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  8. Sachin Dessai says:

    beware of her.. she might make u an asshole!
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  9. Saulpk says:


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  10. B0uncingMoonman@aol.com says:

    Yeh, she likes and fancies you.

    Her boyfriend is jealous, which is quite natural. I reckon you could take her off him if you really tried.
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  11. Muliana ! says:

    Yeaaa, its obvious she likes ya. :D I’m not sure why she is doing this, when she has a boyfriend, but maybe a part of her developed feelings for you, that you quite don’t know about yet. & well.. her boyfriend… he is most likely jealous because of the fact that you see her probably more than he does, and you guys have pictures together, and ya.. just jealous. I wish the best in what happens next. ;D
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  12. I'm a Person! says:

    She doesn’t like her bf she likes YOU :D lucky shi* you are but when her bf gets the news it’s beat up time but she is flirting with you like major FLIRTATION
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  13. Anna says:

    yes, she obviously likes you but sounds like she is clingy.
    I have to ask you a question: do you really think she has got a bf? have you seen that guy like.. in real?? or.. I don’t know. A few of my friends make fake male facebook accounts just to make a guy jealous… it works:D
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  14. casey says:

    shes a lil skank,and her boyfriend is obviously threatened by you. dw about it im sure she has problems just find someone better and than she might leave you alone or tell her to leave you alone that she has a boyfriend and you don’t want to ruin that for her
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  15. Chocoholic123 says:

    I don’t think he cares, I think she’s just playing hard to get by doing that…
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  16. Aly says:

    She really likes you and is somewhat obsessed with you she want you to be a big part of her life and wants you to know that in a subtle way. Although she does all that to get your attention. if you like her make her life more easy because it takes courage to show your body to a guy that your not with but then again she’s trying way to hard to get you and that could end badly. As for her boyfriend if it is her real boyfriend, no boyfriend want his girlfriend flirting with other guys or seeing their bodies… Would you like some random guy to see your girlfriends body? Normal answer would be no. You either need to find a way to make her uninterested or let her down easy. if you let her go hard then she will be ruined, and she may say bad things about you. If you like her flirt back make her happy and tell her to calm down.

    there all lots of girls that fall to hard for a guy and also don’t know how to control themselves they feel as though they are in love and they want the person they love to love them back. typical teenage girl hormones. but just be careful with her because if you show your uninterested she will be heart broken. even though your not in a relationship she thinks you guys have something.

    you need to also find a way to make her understand that posting pictures of herself on facebook everyone see’s them and she shouldnt create that kind of image for herself. take pictures with her where she looks decent her height hugging or w.e but not making her chest look bigger. she should be happy with her body the way it is.

    Basically all in all just be a good friend, give her advice dont piss her boyfriend off respect that he is with her and talk to her about it. if you like her tell her to break up with her bf so them there is nothing holding you two apart she will feel extremely happy about this usually. Try to avoid seeing her body or letting her expose herself. make her have more respect for her body. somehow. its hard but she will be thankful.

    i hope this helps

    -Another teenage girl
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  17. Spark says:

    Any teenager would tell you "Oh she likes you." or "She wouldn’t do those things if she didn’t like you."

    But in my honest opinion, I don’t think she does. She’s a classic flirt. She’s too immature to know that she’s hurting you by flirting with you. She’s really just using you. She gets a kick out of doing these things. It’s her way of having ‘fun’. It’s obvious by how she replied to her boyfriend when he said "You would make a cute couple" and she said "I will love you always and forever and this will always last!".

    A girl who secretly likes a guy would never let him see her half naked. Unless she was a whore, but in this case, she’s just immature. I see this happen all the time to people. It’s really senseless.

    If you really want to know, just stop talking to her. Stop letting her walk all over you. Once you’ve ignored her for a day or two, she’ll either never talk to you again, or ask you what’s wrong. And if she likes you, she’ll panic. Then tell her the truth. You like her and you want her to be YOUR girlfriend, not the other guy’s. Get this settled as soon as possible. Otherwise it will just keep torturing you and you’ll have to keep asking yahoo answers for advice that won’t get you anywhere.
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